How to block or report a penpal
Your safety comes first. If a penpal makes you uncomfortable, you have two simple tools — here is what each one does and how to use them.
Block or report — what is the difference?
Block
Blocking stops that person from contacting you. It is quiet and immediate — they are not told they have been blocked.
Use it when you simply do not wish to hear from someone.
Report
Reporting alerts our safety team to review that profile. You can add a short note explaining the problem.
Use it when someone breaks our rules — flirtatious or suggestive messages, asking for money, or anything that feels suspicious.
You can do both — block someone and report them.
How to block or report a penpal
- From your Inbox, open the conversation with the penpal.
- Tap the three-dot menu (⋮) at the top of
the chat, next to their name.
Screenshot: the three-dot menu open, with “Block user” and “Report user” highlighted.Both options live in the three-dot menu beside your penpal’s name. - Choose what you need:
To block — choose Block user and confirm. That penpal can no longer message you. Changed your mind? Open the same menu and choose Remove block.
To report — choose Report user, type a short reason so our team knows what to look at, then tap Submit report. Once reported, the menu shows Un-report user if you change your mind.