I'm a mother of 3. An IPV ongoing survivor. I would like a companion with like minded views. Can handle talking about the dark as well as the light. Gives the bad as well as well as the good . I'm also an agnostic theist. I'm a realist. I believe in determinism. No free will. I'm not a nihilist I just view things from a realistic pessimistic view with good intentions. I like to create as in make things from art to writing literature.