I'm inquisitive and look for connection with people beyond the surface level. Hobbies and interests are a good starting point though. I tend to plants, read books, paint, cook, bake, play chess and board games. I also enjoy going on long hikes, especially in autumn and winter, kayaking and biking in spring and summer. I've recently gotten into indoor rock climbing. I don't know that I would ever have the bravery for climbing outdoors, but never say never. I am a bit of a reformed pessimist. I still have my nihilistic and cynical moments, but they are not what I tend to linger on long term.