i am a married lady been with my husband for over thirty years but once lived in south africa in the seventies when i was eighteen and lived in kempton park where i knew my 36 years old daughters father and would like a pen pal who could maybe find out something for me about him as i have been searching for years for him as my daughter wants to know who he was i am an easy going lady and spend my time looking after my home and family i have a 16 years old grandaughter and an eight year old grandson i grew up in scotland till i was four as i am scottish and then moved to london.