I never know how to discibe myself.. . I try my best to be kind, mindful of others and understand others without judgment, and don't understand the cruelty in the world. I love deep conversations and am not great at small talk but can easily mask this to make others feel comfortable. Genuine and honest souls are what I am drawn to and usually drawn to me. I do have a spicy brain, and have lived a life with lots of experiences I wouldn't wish on anyone but still privileged in comparison to most of the world. My safe space is with my husband, two dogs and a cat. Art, flowers, nature, music, food