I am a female who is really interested getting into penpaling! My vibe for decorating my mail and journal is victorian/gothic romance. I am a very blunt and realist person who is trying to romanticize my life and finding myself again. My music is very chaotic which explains my personality I believe; sometimes I listen to lofi, soft Motown, then the next minute I am listening to heavy metal music in Japanese and don't understand what they are saying. I spend my days outside with my child for most of the time and at night usually reading real books/smut at night. :P