I am a happily married, 46-year-old father of two boys. I live in a nice, moderately sized Midwest city of a few hundred thousand. I'm a city police dispatcher; I love my job immensely but it can be very stressful at times. Between my job and family, I don't have a great deal of free time, but I try to remain curious about life, and about the prospect of meeting new and interesting people. I’ve done a small bit of traveling, but nowhere near as much as I’d like to.