Happily divorced, still single, active, healthy; 2 kids from (only once from) 1 previous marriage; California raised but not born and, like my beloved mother, couldn't speak a lick of English when we got here from Europe. My father, retired U.S. Military; he was in Korea and Vietnam, too; I am so grateful he is a healthy 80 years old; my mom 66; had me when she was an 18 year old virgin, by him.