I am honest, i say it like it is but am also open to your opinion and if that opens new doors for self discovery and mutual growth even better, i like to question things if it isn't obvious that "a cigar is just a cigar" type of situation, yes i am that person that will say what most are thinking but i've learnt to be diplomatic about it now this together with a good sense of humour has had many with a story to tell, my pet peeve is condescending comments because if you can't say anything nice than best not to say anything, animals mean the world to me.