I am outgoing, happy, involved in my church, adore my grandchildren, love my surviving child dearly, enjoy life, nature and true friendships, enjoy history and learning, don't tolerate fools, have no interest in those who purport to fall madly in love within a couple of mail exchanges and then beg money to be paid so they can have safe passage from military service or the like, been there, done that, so dont even go there, no I don't rant, I forward that type of stuff to the authoritories as people who deliberately hurt people or take momey by false pretences are in need of a reality check,