This might be hard, but will give it a go; humble as in I care for others more then myself. I have just lost my almost wife and best friend (Heather), so I spend my time just staying in and watching Netflix. I am a Chef so cooking for others brings my joy and I get to cook for one person Irka. We have been friends,lovers, almost married and so on for 12 years.Other then Irka I have no friends to talk with and thats what I'm looking for. I have spent about 2 years in Costa Rica and would love to live there, almost did before Heather passed away