On my tombstone I plan on having: The woman with the heart of a revolutionary, the mind of a pragmatist, and the inappropriate humor of your tipsy best friend. Want more? Okay, well, I'm an author, psychotherapist, artist, wife and mama. I loathe small talk and appreciate honesty with softened edges. I want to know what it's really like to live where you are and what makes you YOU. And I will do the same.