Why are there female profiles on here with their age clearly stated and yet I'm getting a message saying "Do not share your age"?! Anyway, sexist site rules aside, I'm Stephen and I am far less successful than you are. But I'm also probably a lot more chilled out and content with life than you are too ^.^It's all about finding out what makes happiness and being happy enough with what you have, and realising the limitations on life, invariably there via your own life choices. I've done this and I've virtually achieved nirvana here Gamer, loner, all round geek. If that's you too: write!