My personality how to describe that well I can be quirky and serious all the same time I am a mother of three married to my best friends recently became a stay at home mom for the first time in 42 years so I thought it would be fun to have a penpal to learn new things about the world I spend my spare time playing with my kids, my four dogs, a large garden, or hanging out in the woods. We have a large cattle farm that my husband and I work and try to enjoy the simple things in life I’m a firm believer that everything happens for a reason, so I think I saw this website for a reason .