In person I can be kind of crunchy but I’m actually really kind and caring. I head two mental health groups for people raised by alcoholics and dysfunctional families; I study archeology and anthropology at ASU online- and it’s my second degree; I love to garden, read, collect art, hike, go to any museum and I love vampire dramas. I am a Victorian goth half the time and a grunge girl the other half of the time. I identify as gender fluid though I’m AFAB and I am a lesbian & am polyamorous. I use They/She pronouns. I’m a pagan and I’m disabled with a few invisible illnesses. I’m also a leftist.