I'm an easy going married queer guy who doesn't get a lot of downtime due to work, so I don't have a big social circle. When I get some time, I love my dogs, sitting in the garden reading or writing. I love to sing along to music (even though I must sound like a cat being strangled LOL) it just relaxes me. If I'm doing that, I can mind numb in front of something on TV or go for a walk.